Are You Practicing Intentional Conscious Parenting?

Intentional              Conscious                       Parenting


Deliberate               Awake                           Guardian
Calculated               Able To Recognize       Originator
Planned                   Aware                            Source Of Product
Considered             Apprised                         Performance Of
Proposed                Attentive                        The Duties Of A Parent
Purpose                  Assured                          Architect
Unforced                Au Courant                     Author
Willful                      Discerning                      Father 
Intently                  Informed                        Mother
Intended                Mindful                            Be The Root
Designful                Recognizing                   Prototype
Premeditative        Responsive

                                Sensitive To
                                Supra Liminal
                                Watchful
                                Wise To
                                Calculated
                                Effective
                                Rational
                                Reflective
                                Responsible
                                Self Conscious 


What would you like to add to this reference list from your parenting skills?


Written By: Stacy Toten & Carol Lawrence


Follow up Comments:

A Mountain Momma said...

I think being 'Respectful' is an important part of parenting. I find if I give respect and do not shame or humiliate my children I sometimes get the same in return.

Milton's Secret (book) by Eckhart is a children's picture book that will demonstrate to your child the power of living in the now. 

                                               

The Conscious Parent (book) by  Shefali Tsalbary is so full of much needed parenting information for parenting today's children. The Conscious Parent explores the many concepts of Conscious Parenting. and walks you through the process.

SNIFFASAURUS & Building Your Own Merch Store

Did I get your attention with my wacky title?

Sniffasaurus sniffs out gas leaks!

We couldn't resist getting our picture

taken with him at a recent local event.

Do you have your own Merch Store?
Did you know you can create one for free and promote it on your blog or Facebook page?

Winter arrived early this year.

Across the street from
Carol & Stacy's homes.

Marv playing in the snow.









Cedar Trees.

A friends cabin.

Review & Giveaway of Milton's Secret by Eckhart Tolle & Robert Friedman

Parents, have you been looking for a children's book that reflects Eckhart Tolle's wisdom and teachings? 
Look No Further! Here is the children's book you've been waiting for.


Milton's Secret ~ An adventure of discovery through Then, When, And the Power of Now.
By Eckhart Tolle & Robert S Friedman
Illustrated by Frank Riccio

Milton's Secret will take your child on an internalizing thought provoking journey. Milton seeks to utilize his own inner power. 


Through lessons learned from being in the now he's empowered to turn a negative scary situation into an eye opening positive engaging experience.


Eckhart Tolle & Robert S. Friedman do an exceptional job teaching children how to see the light in others and live in the now.

Illustrator Frank Riccio draws you in with his 
alluring illustrations and exquisite details!



Life is here to be our teacher, our guide, and our spiritual partner. We are here to uncover our unconsciousness and integrate it. ~ Shefali Tsabary, PhD
The Conscious Parent ~ transforming ourselves empowering our children

Give a unique gift they'll remember.

What is the Best Thing about Your Kids?

Great discussion happening at our ICP Blog Frog Community.

What is the Best Thing about Your Kids? | Intentional Conscious Parenting

How would you answer that question? We'd love to hear your answers.

Come and express your admiration for your children in our BF community.

Is it their smile? How they make you feel?
How they know when you need a hug?

The way they connect with everyone around them?


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The Power Of Words.

Thank you, Rob Wiltshire, for sharing your photo with us.


A very important tool in life is learning about the power of our words.

Like colors, words have a vibration. Words can make you feel great or make you feel sad. Almost everyone has had experiences during childhood of being called names or being around a bully who was picking on someone. 

Words can hurt. They can also change your world. The newest studies available show you how they carry their own vibration. Since we live in vibrational bodies we are effected by the vibrations that are directed at us and around us. We receive these vibrations from the music we listen to, the words we hear, TV, news, conversations, books and more. If this concept is new to you there are many studies and wonderful books exploring the power of words. One of the coolest books on the topic is 

The Healing Power Of Water by Dr. Masaru Emoto. His studies were groundbreaking. They haves shown the power of  words through using water crystals. If you haven't seen his amazing photos your missing out. You will never look at words the same way. You'll never look at water the same way.

Are You Parenting From The Past?

Are you willing to take a hard look at your parenting skills and the way you discipline your child?


Have you ever thought about where your parenting beliefs come from? The ways we discipline our children have been passed down from grandparents to parents and then to us. Some parenting practices go back several generations. Societal beliefs also shape each decade.


How do you feel about the way you were disciplined as a child?
Have you ever explored these feelings? There is much value in this exploration. 
Are you parenting from the past?


A Successful tool we have used was to grab a piece of paper and pen. Draw a line down the middle of the paper. On top of the page write mom/dad. Write pros' on one side and con's on the other. Now start listing what you liked and didn't like. This is where the intentional Conscious Parenting begins. 


(This is an example, no references to anyone in particular)

By the choices that you make you help shape your child's well being. Choose wisely someday they may quite possible be passing on these beliefs onto your grandchildren. 


Here is a good time to break any chains that need to be broken. It does not matter if you have a baby on the way or if your child is 10 or seventeen. It's never to late to change.


Written by: Carol Lawrence and Stacy Toten


Since no other journey is able to evoke more emotional reactivity in us than parenting, to be a parent invites us to treat the reactions our children trigger in us as opportunities for spiritual growth. ~ Shefali Tsabary, PhD





























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“A professional writer is an amateur who didn’t quit.” Richard Bach

Intentional Conscious Parenting Updates

Hello everyone. Happy Fall! 
We hope you are enjoying the unfolding of Fall. It is so beautiful. We really enjoy watching the leaves turn colors one by one and fall off the trees as they prepare for winter.

INTENTIONAL CONSCIOUS PARENTING NEWS:

We would like to share with you a recent accomplishment. An article of ours.......2012~Let The Celebration Begin is published this month in Fit Beautiful Magazine. Fit Beautiful is an online magazine that inspires and educates women on the wellness of body, mind and spirit with a emphasis on nutritional and healthy daily living habits. Fit Beautiful is available 24/7 online and is in print twice a year. 


We hope you get a chance to read it. Please share your thoughts about our article at Fit Beautiful Magazine. We'll have another article in Fit Beautiful Magazine in December. You will be able to find our articles under the category Your Spiritual Side in the Inspirational section.


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CAROL & STACY'S PUBLISHING PROCESS:


Amongst painting our homes, many visitors, a few vacations, surgeries on our pets, participating in the Write On Con online writers conference, critiquing our query letter many times, mailing off completed manuscripts, several query letters to various agents and spending  a lot of time working on articles for our blog we are now ready to transition into the process of writing our second children's picture book.  We'll keep you posted on how the process unfolds.


UPCOMING REVIEWS AND GIVEAWAYS:


We have some exciting reviews coming up real soon. We are very excited to be reviewing three books for Namaste Publishing.


1) The Conscious Parent Transforming ourselves ~ Empowering our children by Shefali Tsabary, PhD is an exceptional new parenting book. You'll never look at parenting the same way after reading Shefali's new book. Be on the look out for our complete review and giveaway! One lucky newsletter subscriber will win a copy of The Conscious Parent. 


2) If you watch Oprah you might remember the ground breaking phenomenal 
A New Earth Web Event series with Eckhart Tolle. We participated every week in this groundbreaking soul series event. We will be bringing you our full and honest review of Eckhart Tolle and Robert S Friedman's children's book 
Milton's Secret ~ An Adventure Of Discover Through Then, When, And The Power Of Now. Sign up for our newsletter for a chance to win your very own copy. Winners are picked from our newsletter subscriber list using random.org 


3) Another exciting review coming up is..... Mister Ego And The Bubble Of Love by Namaste author Amber Hinton. Keep an eye out for our full review and giveaway.


OTHER PLACES YOU'LL FIND US ON THE NET:


Our Intentional Conscious Parenting Blog Frog community is growing by leaps and bounds. If you haven't joined and participated in one of the great conversations happening over there please come and visit. We value your advice. Come and share it with other parents, authors, artists and creative minds! You do not need to be a parent to participate.


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Written by: Carol Lawrence




If we free ourselves from our ego and simply observe our children's development as life spontaneously teases it out of them, they become our teachers. In other words, living authentically allows us to cease looking at our children as blank canvasses on which we can project our image of who they should be, seeing them instead as fellow travelers on the journey, changing us as much as we are changing them. ~ Shefali Tsabary, Phd 
From Shefali's new book ~The Conscious Parent
Printed with permission from Namaste Publishing.




 Fit Beautiful Magazine

Studioahimsa Handmade Staitionery Celebrates Grand-Opening Specials!

Studioahimsa is celebrating its grand-opening. This unique and eco-friendly online store specializes in handmade recycled paper greeting cards and prints - perfect for upcoming Holiday season gift-giving, hostess gifts or to jazz up your own home to prepare for guests.

With all the festivities happening on the company's parent blog site Being Tazim (http://www.beingtazim.com/studioahimsa), it is the perfect time to stop by and see what's in store for you. Don't miss the opportunity to pick up your Holiday cards and gifts at a discounted rate, or enter to win some new products from the company.

Starting November 14, 2010, the Grand Opening of this unique online store is being celebrated with a scavenger hunt, a giveaway, and discount rates on gift certificates - example: $20 GC for $15/$30 GC for $24/$50 GC for $40 etc. Other discounts and specials will be announced as well.

Oryx and Crake Letter Set

Why buy handmade? Handmade products come with a free bonus built-in: LOVE! Each product is unique and special, hand-crafted with care. Rather than purchase run-of-the-mill store-bought greeting cards or gifts, show your gift recipient you care about the environment and supporting artisans, with studioahimsa products!



About studioahimsa: Founded in 2010, studioahimsa is the joint creative venture of best friends Tazim Damji and Greg West. Based in Vancouver, Canada, the team designs and creates all products in the line. Taking the environment in to consideration, all greeting cards and stationery sets are handmade using 100% post-consumer recycled paper and envelopes. For packaging, the team creatively wraps each item using reclaimed/upcycled paper from materials such as book jackets. Damji and West, long-time fans of paper-goods and eco-friendly products, finally realised their dream of opening a paper-goods shop online.

Discount code for Intentional Conscious Parenting readers - 20% off all products, until November 30th. Put code in notes to seller and discount will be applied: Intentional20


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A Spiritual Conspiracy

A friend of our's Barb Cote shared this beautiful poem on Facebook and I wanted to share it with you. 

Thanks to all of you that are part of this conspiracy!

A SPIRITUAL CONSPIRACY

On the surface of the world right now there is war and violence and things seem dark, but calmly and quietly, at the same time,something else is happening underground. An inner revolution is taking placeand certain individuals are being called to a higher light. It is a silent revolution. From the inside out. From the ground up.This is a Global operation. A Spiritual Conspiracy. There are sleeper cells in every nation on the planet. You won't see us on the T.V., you won't read about us in the newspaper. You won't hear about us on the radio. We don't seek any glory. We don't wear any uniform. We come in all shapes and sizes, colors and styles. Most of us work anonymously We are quietly working behind the scenes in every country and culture of the world. Cities big and small, mountains and valleys,in farms and villages, tribes and remote islands. You could pass by one of us on the street and not even notice. We go undercover. We remain behind the scenes. It is of no concern to us who takes the final credit, but simply that the work gets done. Occasionally we spot each other in the street. We give a quiet nod and continue on our way. During the day many of us pretend we have normal jobs, but behind the false storefront at nightis where the real work takes a place. Some call us the Conscious Army. We are slowly creating a new world with the power of our minds and hearts. We follow, with passion and joy. Our orders come from the Central Spiritual Intelligence. We are dropping soft, secret love bombs when no one is looking poems ~ hugs ~ music ~ photography ~ movies ~ kind words ~ smiles ~ meditation and prayer ~ dance ~ social activism ~ websites ~ blogs ~ random acts of kindness...We each express ourselves in our own unique ways with our own unique gifts and talents. Be the change you want to see in the world. That is the motto that fills our hearts. We know it is the only way real transformation takes place. We know that quietly and humbly we have the power of all the oceans combined. Our work is slow and meticulous, like the formation of mountains. It is not even visible at first glance, and yet with it entire tectonic plates shall be moved in the centuries to come. Love is the new religion of the 21st century. You don't have to be a highly educated person, or have any exceptional knowledge to understand it. It comes from the intelligence of the heart. Embedded in the timeless evolutionary pulse of all human beings. Be the change you want to see in the world. Nobody else can do it for you. We are now recruiting. Perhaps you will join us, or already have. All are welcome. The door is open.  It's time. 

Author Unknown

Here's a poem Barb wrote for all of us last February. 

Poem For The Children Of Today!

http://www.barbcote.com/